Secure your place now for this transformative experience.

As bereaved parents, we understand the profound and unique pain that follows the loss of a child. Along with overwhelming grief often comes isolation, the feeling of being misunderstood, and the many secondary losses that can quietly reshape every part of life.
The Vilomah Retreat offers a space of genuine understanding and connection. Here, you won't hear, "I can't imagine what you're going through." You'll be surrounded by parents who know this road firsthand and who make room for both tears and laughter—without guilt, pressure, or judgment.
Together, we explore grief honestly and without apology. We acknowledge how this loss has changed us, consider how to reconnect with the parts of ourselves that remain, and discover new ways to carry our child's love and memory forward while continuing to live with purpose.
Once you arrive, you can simply be present. Your accommodations, chef-prepared meals, retreat materials, and all workshops and sessions are included, allowing you to step away from daily responsibilities and focus fully on yourself and your journey.
to experience connection, sanctuary, and support as we learn to navigate grief well.
Designed to provide a safe & compassionate space for parents to share, connect & support one another, we'll explore meaningful tools to help us navigate our grief well.
You may arrive feeling alone, but you'll depart belonging to a strong community.
Nestled just outside Durham, this beautiful private home provides the perfect setting for a peaceful, intimate retreat. Quiet outdoor spaces, a welcoming fire pit, inviting gathering areas, and a comfortable chef's kitchen create an environment where you can slow down, connect, and simply breathe.
Known as the City of Medicine and affectionately called the Bull City, Durham is home to world-renowned medical and research institutions and has earned national recognition as one of America's top food destinations. While our retreat is designed to encourage rest and connection at the house, guests traveling to and from the retreat will experience one of North Carolina's most vibrant and welcoming cities.
This thoughtfully chosen home offers a peaceful backdrop for a weekend of reflection, authentic connection, and honoring the enduring love we carry for our children.
Arrive: Friday, 11/20/26 at 3:00 pm
Depart: Monday, 11/23/26 at 9:30 am
Closest Airport: 21 min. from Raleigh-Durham International Airport (RDU)
Transportation not provided.

Private King Bedroom (ensuite)
$2,395
A serene, private space for deep rest and reflection.

Private Queen Bedroom (ensuite)
$2,095
A warm, private space designed for comfort, quiet reflection, and peaceful restoration.

Private Queen Bedroom
$2,095
A peaceful, private haven to unwind, reflect, and feel at home throughout your retreat.

Shared Twin Bedroom
$1,795
A cozy shared retreat with two separate twin beds, thoughtfully designed for comfort, connection, and peaceful rest.
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