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As bereaved parents, we understand the profound and unique pain that follows the loss of a child. The sense of loneliness, feeling misunderstood, and the isolation that can accompany grief are deeply challenging. For many of us, the secondary losses—of friends, family, or even marriages—compound the pain, creating layers of heartache.
The Vilomah Retreat offers a sanctuary where you can find understanding, connection, and support. Here, you won’t hear “I can’t imagine what you’re going through.” Instead, you’ll discover a community that truly gets it—a place where you can cry and laugh without guilt or judgment.
In this compassionate and safe environment, we explore grief authentically and without apology. Together, we delve into how loss impacts us, seek ways to reclaim our sense of self, and work toward finding meaning. While navigating grief is daunting, rediscovering a quality of life that honors both your loss and your ongoing journey is a vital and transformative process.
The Vilomah Retreat is designed to provide a nurturing space where you can connect with others who share your experience, find solace, and learn meaningful tools for navigating your grief. Become part of this supportive community where understanding is abundant, and regaining health is embraced. This retreat is an opportunity to reset, find hope, and take the next steps on your unique path forward.
to experience connection, sanctuary, and support as we learn to navigate grief well.

Designed to provide a safe & compassionate space for parents to share, connect & support one another, we'll explore meaningful tools to help us navigate
our grief well. You may arrive feeling alone, but you'll depart belonging to a strong community.

This beautiful private lakefront home is nestled on a quiet lake in Hillsborough, NC. Guests will be immersed in comfort and calm through thoughtfully designed spaces that invite rest, reflection, and meaningful connection. This home boasts private and shared bedrooms to ensure everyone's comfort.
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Arrive: Friday, 5/29/26 at 3:00 pm
Depart: Monday, 6/1/26 at 9:30 am
Closest Airport: 44 min. from Raleigh-Durham International Airport (RDU)
Transportation not provided.

Private King Bedroom (no ensuite)
$2,297
A serene, private space for deep rest and reflection.

Shared King Bed (Solo Use)
$1,797
A generous bed in a shared room. For guests who want personal space with communal connection.
Companion Add-On (Shared King Bed)
$1,297
For friends/spouses attending together.

Shared Double Bed (Same Room as King Bed)
$1,597
A mid-range option offering comfort and community.

Bottom Bunk or Trundle Bed
$1,297
Comfortable, grounded rest in a calm, shared space.
Bottom: 1 of 2 spaces available.
Trundle: 2 of 2 spaces available.

Top Bunk
$1,097
One of our most affordable options. Full retreat access included.
Top: 1 of 2 spaces available.

Daybed in Private Living Area – Solo Guest
$1,097
Two Guests Sharing
$1,047 each
Our most affordable option.
Full retreat access included.

Submitting your payment means you’ve read and agree to our Payment, Refund & Transfer Policy. Please note that all payments become non-refundable 60 days before the retreat.
Once you arrive in Raleigh, NC, all meals, accommodations, materials, and sessions are included for you.

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*Note that free time is intentionally built-in around & between scheduled activities to encourage connection, integration & processing, and rest.
**Details in the itinerary could change.
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