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As bereaved parents, we understand the profound and unique pain that follows the loss of a child. The loneliness, the feeling of being misunderstood, and the secondary losses that often follow can add layers of heartache no one prepares you for.
The Vilomah Retreat offers a space of genuine understanding and connection. Here, you won’t hear “I can’t imagine what you’re going through.” You’ll be surrounded by parents who know this road and who allow space for both tears and laughter — without guilt or judgment.
Together, we explore grief honestly and without apology. We examine how loss has changed us, consider how to reclaim parts of ourselves, and gently move toward a life that honors both our child and our continued existence.
Once you arrive, all meals, accommodations, materials, and sessions are included.
to experience connection, sanctuary, and support as we learn to navigate grief well.

Designed to provide a safe & compassionate space for parents to share, connect & support one another, we'll explore meaningful tools to help us navigate
our grief well. You may arrive feeling alone, but you'll depart belonging to a strong community.

This beautiful private lakefront home is nestled on a quiet lake in Hillsborough, NC. Guests will be immersed in comfort and calm through thoughtfully designed spaces that invite rest, reflection, and meaningful connection. This home boasts private and shared bedrooms to ensure everyone's comfort.
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Arrive: Friday, 5/29/26 at 3:00 pm
Depart: Monday, 6/1/26 at 9:30 am
Closest Airport: 44 min. from Raleigh-Durham International Airport (RDU)
Transportation not provided.

Private King Bedroom (no ensuite)
$2,297
A serene, private space for deep rest and reflection.

Shared King Bed (Solo Use)
$1,797
A generous bed in a shared room. For guests who want personal space with communal connection.
Companion Add-On (Shared King Bed)
$1,297
For friends/spouses attending together.

Shared Double Bed (Same Room as King Bed)
$1,597
A mid-range option offering comfort and community.

Bottom Bunk or Trundle Bed
$1,297
Comfortable, grounded rest in a calm, shared space.
Bottom: 1 of 2 spaces available.
Trundle: 2 of 2 spaces available.

Top Bunk
$1,097
One of our most affordable options. Full retreat access included.
Top: 0 of 2 spaces available.

Daybed in Private Living Area – Solo Guest
$1,097
Two Guests Sharing
$1,047 each
Our most affordable option.
Full retreat access included.

Submitting your payment means you’ve read and agree to our Payment, Refund & Transfer Policy. Please note that all payments become non-refundable 60 days before the retreat.
If a retreat is currently full or not yet open for registration, we invite you to join our waitlist. We will contact you directly when a space becomes available or the next retreat is announced.
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